Today was the finale to my 30 day experiment in finding a soul mate. You ask, how did it turn out? Can’t really give you a solid answer. I will say after three beers with my British colleagues Micheal and Johnathan, I don’t really care nor did I have a mate that appeared out of thin air.

For those of you that are wondering what I am talking about, a month ago I had this very complex dream. (Read “Finding a Soul Mate” blog) It was like a vision with directions on how to find a soul mate. I even illustrated it. Instructions were to visualize my positive attributes out of my head like little feelers. As each one appeared I said an “I am a _____” quality to manifest the wonderful things I had in me and I wanted in return in a man. I did this twice a day for 30 days and today my soul mate should appear. I did exactly that! Now did any one appear in a chariot to carry me away? Well no! But I will say it has been an interesting day. I got a couple of interesting emails from some nice men and then I had lunch and afternoon beers with a few more. So do I have a soul mate, probably not today! I did ponder buying a fish, and may do that tomorrow to fill the void or maybe a turtle, instead.

I want you to know I am not giving up. I think patience is a key here! I just need to wait it out. I have sent all my good energy into the universe and hopefully it will connect with the same right energy, then kick his booty my way.

I also had a dream about the shoes he wears, so am keeping an eye out for those shoes. (Read “The Mysterious man in the Black Shoes” blog) Won’t it be interesting if the guy just walks into my life wearing those shoes? What a hoot that will be. Could totally just make my day!

So if you are out to win me over, you better wear the right pair of shoes and understand the attractions of soul mates. If not, don’t worry I am still your friend. If you are my family, forgive me for being crazy in China!